Jan 3, 2008

5 Things to do for Single guys to mingle !

For past few months , I have been questioned by my single friends on how to deal with "woman" !I have listened to some self-pity statements like I am not good at building relationship..Girls just dont like me ..etc etc !!

I thought why not give my fellow friends some tips....
Here they are :

1. "Look Smart Feel Smart" - You need to believe in this tag-line.Groom Yourself.I know MNC culture is very encouraging that other employees wont mind if you wear the same old t-shirt for 3 days.But you need to remember the fact rather your name , you will be identified by your t-shirt.Keep Changing your wardrobe and please donate your faded school/college t-shirts to charity !!! We know you are from so and so college..So WHAT ??!!


2."Care for your Hygiene" - You are fooling yourself if you think a girl will be OK , even if she see those white dandruff flakes !I know dear....you have a critical deadline but still somehow take care of your personal hygiene ! Be neat and clean !

3."Quit Smoking" - Anyway in future your girl will take care of you and your lungs ..so she will ask you to quit smoking...So do quit smoking from now on...Atleast have control over number of cigarettes if you cannot quit !

4."Stop your Male Chauvinist comments" - I have seen many guys who just like that pass on male chavinistic comments inspite of having high regards and respect for women!If you are one of those MCPs , you shouldn't have read my post in the first place !! I know the number of women in techie-geeky communities are less..So what ?? ..These are already enough statistics and reports in place to prove that women are heading towards the top !!

5."Stop over-caring" - Dont be one of those over-friendly,over-bill-paying,over-gifting,over-nice,over-caring guy.Sensible woman like to be independent.You need not accompany her for anything and everything.She will ask your help when she is in need !Understand the fact that she has a mind of her own !

Let me know guys if the above tips work for you :)
I wish you good luck and success for Feb 14th 2008 !!!

"Practise Unconditional love"
Raji

5 comments:

Arch said...

Madame ... I am sure ur latest post will surely inspire a lot of guys... how about giving ur experienced gyaan for some poor gals like us too.. ;)

jokes apart..pretty good post gal...sensible advice!!

-arch(ana)

Arch said...
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Raji said...

thanks archana..am not quite an expert on "what man want" yet ;-)

Saravanan said...

Very interesting piece of work...thanks for ur tips..hopefully this works for me athis time..good blog..keep posting

Raji said...

thanks saravanan..let me know whether you succeed in ur efforts ;-)