Lessons from 5+ years in Software Industry...

*** DISCLAIMER :This is truely my personal opinion..Iam not here to pinpoint anyone in particular.***

First of all , I can't believe I have spent already 5 years in software industry...

Here are my observations :
When you look around , there will be certainly :
1.motivated high energy people(role models) who know why they are here..
2.demotivated people with lot of negative energy - they spend their day mostly at pantry,gossiping,constantly trying to demotivate others by discussing rumors about lay-off,performance of other employees..
3.Normal employees who do their work minding their own business on day-to-day basis.

If you are new to this industry , try to disassociate yourself from Category-2.Initially you will feel that may be you are isolated but trust me its worth it.
You need to identify Category-1 and absorb their positive energy.
There are times when you don't find any role models within your team :)
In that case ,try to be one yourself or network with other teams and find your mentor!

Important lesson is that you need to know how you can add unique value !!